Friend: oh my god. I cant believe I wasted months of my life on her. And she just breaks up with me like that.
Me: You didn’t really waste your time on her. You were happy while you were with her. Sure you fought but you were happy. I could see it
Friend: hey I’m sorry I said that. You’re right. I didn’t waste my time I was fucking happy with her. We fought cause we cared about each other. But I loved her and she loved me and we were happy. Thanks for helping me see that.